12/24/11

The 3 hurtful things that the GOP (and the Tea Party) did to gay people this week...


#1. Michigan Tea Party Governor Rick Snyder signs domestic partner benefits ban for Michigan public employees. Why? To save money because gays are not equal to straight spouses and to energize his Tea Party (and anti-gay) base. Ironically, he exempted public universities because the top gay professors threatened to bolt to more friendly states if this law passed without modifications.



#2. Presidential contender and Tea Party favorite Michele Bachmann tells a gay Iowa man that Kinsey's findings are a "myth" and "not valid." Translation: gays are not valid and gay people do not deserve to be a "protected class." This scientific wisdom from the Tea Party darling who does not believe in global warming and other rational facts.


#3. Minnesota GOP Senate Majority Leader Amy Koch, one of the leading proponents of Minnesota's 2012 anti-gay marriage constitutional amendment, resigned her post in disgrace after admitting to an affair with a Senate staffer. Koch, who is is married with one child, was been a leading light in Minnesota's Tea Party movement and authored an unsuccessful bill to amend the Minnesota Constitution declaring "a marriage between a man and a woman is the only domestic legal union that shall be valid or recognized in Minnesota.

A Minnesota gay rights advocate wrote this ironic and wry letter to Ms. Koch, apologizing for 'the failure of her marriage' (making light of the conservative claim that public acceptance of homosexuality threatens traditional marriages.) So even in the darkness of homophobia, gay people can have a laugh and make a strong political point:

An Open Apology to Amy Koch on Behalf of All Gay and Lesbian Minnesotans
Dear Ms. Koch,

On behalf of all gays and lesbians living in Minnesota, I would like to wholeheartedly apologize for our community's successful efforts to threaten your traditional marriage. We are ashamed of ourselves for causing you to have what the media refers to as an "illicit affair" with your staffer, and we also extend our deepest apologies to him and to his wife. These recent events have made it quite clear that our gay and lesbian tactics have gone too far, affecting even the most respectful of our society.

We apologize that our selfish requests to marry those we love has cheapened and degraded traditional marriage so much that we caused you to stray from your own holy union for something more cheap and tawdry. And we are doubly remorseful in knowing that many will see this as a form of sexual harassment of a subordinate.

It is now clear to us that if we were not so self-focused and myopic, we would have been able to see that the time you wasted diligently writing legislation that would forever seal the definition of marriage as being between one man and one woman, could have been more usefully spent reshaping the legal definition of "adultery."

Forgive us. As you know, we are not church-going people, so we are unable to fully appreciate that "gay marriage" is incompatible with Christian values, despite the fact that those values carry a biblical tradition of adultery such as yours. We applaud you for keeping that tradition going.

And finally, shame on us for thinking that marriage is a private affair, and that our marriage would have little impact on anyone's family. We now see that marriage is more than that. It is an agreement with society. We should listen to the Minnesota Family Council when it tells us that marriage is about being public, which explains why marriages are public ceremonies. Never did we realize that it is exactly because of this societal agreement that the entire world is looking at you in shame and disappointment instead of minding its own business.

From the bottom of our hearts, we ask that you please accept our apology.

Thank you.
John Medeiros
Minneapolis MN

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