7/30/13
Recently rediscovered photos by a soldier from the Vietnam War
See them here.
From Boston.com:
Charlie Haughey was drafted into the US Army in October of 1967. He was 24, and had been in college in Michigan before running out of money and quitting school to work in a sheet metal factory. The draft notice meant that he was to serve a tour of duty in Vietnam, designated a rifleman, the basic field position in the Army. After 63 days in Vietnam, he was made a photographer, shooting photographs for the Army and US newspapers, with these instructions from the Colonel: “You are not a combat photographer. This is a morale operation. If I see pictures of my guys in papers, doing their jobs with honor, then you can do what you like in Vietnam.” He shot nearly 2,000 images between March 1968 and May 1969 before taking the negatives home. And there they sat, out of sight, but not out of mind, for 45 years, until a chance meeting brought them out of dormancy and into a digital scanner. At first, it was very difficult for Haughey to view the images and talk about them, especially not knowing the fates of many of the subjects of his photos. When the digitization hit 1,700 negative scans, Haughey put them on a slideshow and viewed them all at once, and didn’t sleep for three days after. He’s slowly getting better at dealing with the emotional impact of seeing the images for the first time in decades. A team of volunteers has worked with Haughey to plan a 28-image show, titled A Weather Walked In.
7/29/13
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7/27/13
The brave LGBT people of Lithuania celebrate their 2nd Gay Pride celebration despite virulent anti-gay protests
Fighting for freedom and equality is never easy or without physical risk. Kudos to these courageous activists.
7/26/13
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7/21/13
Remembering this man of integrity
From the New York Times:
Mr. Yoshida had been chief manager at Fukushima Daiichi for just nine months when a 42-foot tsunami inundated the site on March 11, 2011, knocking out vital cooling systems to the plant’s six reactors. Eventually hydrogen explosions and fuel meltdowns occurred at three reactors, releasing vast amounts of radioactive matter into the environment.
Although the company was widely criticized for its handling of the disaster, which forced more than 100,000 people from their homes, Mr. Yoshida won praise for his effort to minimize the damage.
He has been faulted, however, for failing to invest in adequate tsunami walls at the company’s nuclear power plants when he was head of nuclear facilities. Mr. Yoshida later apologized to reporters, saying he had been “too lax” in his assumptions of how big a tsunami might hit the coastal plant.
Mr. Yoshida took a leave from Tokyo Electric in late 2011 after receiving a diagnosis of esophageal cancer. Experts have said his illness was not a result of radiation exposure from the accident, given how quickly it came on.
7/20/13
I love these next generation of LGBT activists...like these Mexican ones protesting the anti-gay policies of Putin at the Russian Embassy
Proud, out, vocal, and uppity in a good way. No, we are not second-class human beings and we won't allow ourselves to be treated as such.
My quote of the day
It takes an act of grace to wish someone well with whom you do not agree.--Joe Rodriguez
Over the last few years, I have had spirited twitter exchanges with Thomas Peters, the social media coordinator for the National Organization for Marriage as well as the US Conference of Catholic Bishops. Often, I have found his blog posts to be intolerant and homophobic with little understanding for the everyday struggles and suffering of gay people. His orthodox Catholic views come off as smug and self-righteous (his dad, Ed Peters, is a big time canon lawyer for the church and a conservative Catholic).
So I felt a jumble of emotions this week when I found that he had been in a serious accident that damaged his neck. I was sad that one of our main opponents was stricken in this way, a man who recently married and is in his 20s. Another part was angry at his lack of empathy for me and my reactivity to that. And yet another part was disappointed to be losing this adversary and debating partner-- at least for the time being.
But as I sat with my feelings later, I was struck that it often seems some people that come into our lives to play opposite roles to ours, giving us the chance to be bigger, more loving people. And in each moment, we can choose love over fear. That's the persistent existential choice we face in this lifetime.
On a Catholic blogger's page about Mr.Peter's accident, I have watched LGBT and anti-same sex marriage activists trade harsh and angry words. But as the Episcopal bishop Gene Robinson reminds us, while we are entitled to our anger, to behave like the least of our detractors makes us just like them. In short, losing our love (and compassion) to try to win a political debate is pure spiritual folly.
So I am praying for Thomas Peters' recovery -- not just for his injured neck, but to recover his God-given compassion which was dormant. And I am praying for myself, to be more loving and forgiving, and to be the best person I can be in this life.
I applaud Obama for speaking from the heart about the death of Trayvon and how racism has personally affected him
President Obama:
"When Trayvon Martin was first shot I said that this could have been my son. Another way of saying that is that Trayvon Martin could have been me 35 years ago. When you think about in the African-American community, there’s a lot of pain around this. It’s important to recognize that the African-American community is looking at this issue through a set of experiences and a history that doesn’t go away. And I don’t want to exaggerate this, but those sets of experiences inform how the African-American community interprets what happened one night in Florida. And it’s inescapable for people to bring those experiences to bear....There are very few African-African men who haven’t had the experience of being followed in a department store. That includes me.”
Empathy, wisdom, compassion, calm, and
dignity: what more can ask from the leader of the free world.
7/19/13
7/18/13
Signs of the times...from Texas
The Republican war on women continues. From the New Civil Rights Movement:
Governor Rick Perry moments ago signed a highly-controversial and unconstitutional anti-abortion bill into law, effectively ending for most Texas women the ability to exercise their right and ability to have an abortion. Not only does the law prohibit abortion at the 20-week mark or later, but the law requires all doctors performing abortions to have hospital admitting privileges, requires all abortion clinics to be be rated as an ambulatory surgical center, and requires doctors prescribing the medication RU-486 to personally administer it. Women take RU 486 orally and often choose to do so in the privacy of their own home.Shame, indeed...on the GOP, social conservatives, and homocons, who only care about their rights without regard to others.
7/17/13
ESPN asks famous athletes to write a letter to their 14-year-old selves. Here is Robbie Rogers telling himself that he is beautiful just the way he is...
Dear Robbie,
You're walking around with a cramp in your stomach. You feel trapped within yourself. The pressure of being a high school freshman and playing for the U16 national team is stressful enough. But on top of that you're worried that you're different from everyone, especially your teammates. And you think that if they figure out who you are, you won't be able to play the sport you love, or your family won't agree with it. Sometimes you pray and think: I don't wanna live through this. Why can't I be like my brothers and sisters?
I'm not going to tell you to come out at 14 years old. I'm not going to tell you what's going to happen in the future either, because the journey is important.
But I want you to realize that God made you this way for a reason. You're not damned or going to hell. You didn't have a choice in this. But you do have a purpose in life, just as everyone does.
When guys say things in the locker room, remind yourself that most of them don't actually feel this way. They aren't really homophobic. These are people who are trying to please others, or think that's what they're supposed to say. Everyone is dealing with something whether they're gay or straight. You don't have to feel like you're alone. Which brings me to this: If there's any great advice I can give you, it's to find someone you can speak to about what you're feeling inside, someone you can trust who won't judge or expose you. Because you can't walk around with a burden like the one you're carrying. You've got to share this with somebody.
I know I said I wouldn't tell you what your future holds, but I will tell you that everything's going to be fine -- one day you'll be happier than you ever thought possible. And while you can't envision sharing your secret now, the world is changing. People are becoming more accepting. And when the time is right, the day might come when you're ready to face the world as the beautiful person you truly are.Check out all the athletes' letters at ESPN.com
San Francisco's greek god: Buster Posey
Buster can do it all: hit, catch, run, and motivate his team. And he's easy on the eyes.
He's an all-around baseball mensch, and is the MVP in San Francisco and beyond.
Marriage equality comes to England and Wales. Thanks to Prime Minister David Cameron who showed tremendous political courage in leading the change
This is big news. American law and government has been hugely influenced by the English, so it is only fitting that Parliament passes marriage equality as more states in the US are doing the same.
7/16/13
This gay 17-year-old high school senior from New Mexico takes his life, after being bullied since he was 8
Because of the homophobia of many churches, social conservatives, and the GOP/Tea Party, young men like Carlos Vigil are bullied relentlessly -- for years -- and often kill themselves to escape this abuse, end their suffering, and escape their harsh self-criticism.
This is the note that Carlos left behind:
These kids are beautiful children of God -- and they need to know that. Perfect just the way they are.
I will not stop advocating for LGBT rights until this type of bullying ceases.
RIP, Carlos.
The 'Harvey Milk of Cameroon' found dead and tortured, being the latest LGBT African leader to be murdered
The brave Cameroonian gay activist Eric Lembembe was found beaten to death over the weekend:
Fellow activists said they found his bloody, lifeless body early today at his home in Yaoundé, Cameroon. Investigations by human rights defenders are under way to discover who was responsible for the crime. At his death, he was serving as the local executive director of the Cameroonian Foundation For AIDS (Camfaids), an advocacy group fighting against AIDS and for human rights of LGBT people in Cameroon, which is one of the world’s most violently anti-gay nations.Via Joe My God
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7/13/13
Dear Trayvon, I am so sorry that some of my fellow Americans are full of fear and hate. Today was a miscarriage of justice
Unarmed a teenage boy is pursued by a neighborhood vigilante and then murdered. And now this not guilty verdict. Un-fricking believable! Sadly, racism is alive and well in 2013.
7/12/13
Quote of the day
“People take a very realistic approach to it. They’re not frustrated or upset. It’s more, ‘This is just the way things are and this is how we’ll deal with it.’ The strategy always comes to ‘What gives us the best chance to get something passed?’ If it looks like there’s a path to something passing, then, as in immigration reform, he’s got to step back. All of our immigration speeches have been very toned down,”– Jon Favreau, Obama's former speech writer on how no-drama Obama manages his nihilist gerrymandered opposition.
7/11/13
The tweet and quote that make my day!
And this quote:
"I cannot ethically defend the constitutionality of Pennsylvania's (law banning same-sex marriage), where I believe it to be wholly unconstitutional."
-- Pennsylvania Attorney General Kathleen Kane, confirming earlier reports in comments made this morning to reporters at the National Constitution Center in Philadelphia. A spokesman for GOP Pennsylvania Gov. Tom Corbett has declined to comment on Lambda Legal and the ACLU's joint lawsuit to overturn the ban.
Political quote of the day
The rhetoric of the new Pope suggests religious institutions are not yet completely closed to change. That young evangelicals tend to be less socially conservative is a hopeful situation. It is difficult to see how conflicted countries in the Mideast will build a bridge between fundamentalism and modernity while at the same time transitioning from dictatorships to self government, but the American ills could be corrected with some firm, consistent pushback from rational Republicans to a fundamentalist base. A GOP that sounded more like David Brooks and less like Rush Limbaugh could win. The party is not too far gone to recognize that fact and adjust. A political solution is not yet out of the question, but it can only come from the right.
It would help if the rest of us, not just urban liberals but moderates too, could avoid sounded bigoted when discussing Christianist fundamentalists, but where to begin? When someone is willfully ignorant or cherry-picking history to support their belief system almost any challenge, no matter how carefully worded, can be labeled and dismissed as arrogant or bigoted.-- A blog post by anonymous person
7/10/13
Calling all astrologically-minded queers...there is a July conference for you, in San Francisco
From the famous and fabulous Christopher Renstrom, astrologer for the high and the low:
Astrology has been around for centuries but this is the first time in its 3500 plus year history that there has been a Queer Astrology Conference. It will focus on LGBT cosmic consciousness and its relationship to the planets and zodiac signs that we are all familiar with. The conference will also explore the influences of the asteroid goddesses, the dwarf planet Eris, and the notorious Black Lilith which have all recently gained popularity in the astrological community – particularly among gay men and women and the transgender community.
This conference is dedicated to the memory of Jack Fertig who passed away from liver cancer. Fertig was a prominent gay voice in the Astrology community as well as an activist. He may be best remembered in San Francisco as Sister Boom Boom of the Nuns of Perpetual Indulgence. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sister_Boom_Boom
The speakers are rising stars in the LGBT astrology community and you can find their bios here http://queerastrology.com/speakers/Don't miss it!
7/9/13
Our love can no longer be denied...
We have given up shame: we now are out, proud, and beautiful (on the inside, too.)
The days of Reagan, Boys in the Band, living in the closet are over!
7/8/13
It is a wonderful feeling to be a first-class American, since the fall of DOMA. Even visiting Utah this weekend, I can see how gay people are becoming more accepted
I am at the Salt Lake City airport about to fly home to CA. Twenty years ago, I used to spend a lot of time in Utah, flying in from San Francisco and spending many weeks working for a major software company headquartered here. As one of the first "out" software executives, I often felt like an alien in this land of Republicans and the LDS, bubbling with anti-gay attitudes. Most of the gay men I met here lived closeted or double lives. After work, I was alone and isolated.
Fast forward to this weekend, I have been visiting my retired parents who spend their summers on the campus of Utah State University, in Logan, UT, north near the Idaho border. Over the 15 years of visiting them in Logan, I noticed that gay people are more visible than before. For example, references to gay marriage, lesbians, and campy behavior were added to the musical we saw at local theater -- and not in derogatory way. Same-sex marriage news stories were neutrally reported in the local Mormon-owned newspaper. And Utah State U., like most large colleges do today, has added a full-time staffer to work with and represent the needs of the LGBTQ students. Small but remarkable symbols of change, even in the Beehive state.
In the 10 days since SCOTUS struck down Prop 8 and DOMA, I have been going through a transition from someone who has always felt like a second-class citizen to a person who feels more equal, at least when I am in the 13 marriage equality states and the District of Columbia. Mostly, it is a feeling of pride and liberation, but it can feel different and strange at times, too. Sometimes, I feel like a prisoner who is suddenly released and is psychologically adjusting to his newfound freedom.
I am glad that I spent so much time in the past 30 years fighting for LGBT equality. While not always easy or convenient, my activism has helped me understand the human condition more and become a force for love in my own life . Through this journey and with the unconditional love of my family and friends, I feel pretty good in my own skin. It has been a privilege to have been in the vanguard of the civil rights struggle of my generation: creating the type of society that I want to live in and passing it on to subsequent generations of queer people.
Being a first-class American feels good. I can get used this! And I want to extend my rights and this feeling to the LGBT everywhere.
I am in Utah for a few days and will be blogging sporadically
The above scene from a fourth of July parade near Logan, Utah. This place feels more like the 1950s.
7/7/13
The grace and optimism of Colum McCann's novel, "TransAtlantic", helped my spirits soar for the past week
I agree with these assessments from the New York Times:
An act of grace and transcendence — not unlike the one in his haunting 2009 novel, “Let the Great World Spin” — lies at the heart of Colum McCann’s musically patterned new novel, “TransAtlantic.”
In both novels these acts of bravery and skill become metaphors for more everyday acts of daring, while at the same time serving as narrative anchors for Mr. McCann’s kaleidoscopic look at an expanding circle of lives.This is a great summer read, reminding me of the power of our ability to reinvent ourselves and move in a dramatically new direction with a single decision or act.
But while “TransAtlantic” makes for a sometimes bumpy ride, it eventually opens out to become an affecting story about the ways the tsunami of history can sideswipe people or lift them to unexpected heights — about the ways dreams and ambition and loss can be handed down generation to generation, as seen through one family of remarkable women.
Mr. McCann has an annoying habit here of embroidering his prose. He writes about skies becoming “a candelabra of violence” during the war; of New York appearing to immigrants arriving by ship like “a cough of blood” on the horizon, with the sun going down behind the buildings; of a woman sliding “like a seal, out of any old sadness she carried” when she hears of the Good Friday peace agreement.
Such pretty, creative-writing-class flourishes are unnecessary and distracting — they pull the reader’s attention away from the real achievement of this novel: its deeply moving portrait of Lily and her descendants, whose stories of hope and survival are played out against the vast, backlit diorama of a century and a half of Irish-American history.
The former president -- who used same-sex marriage initiatives to win re-election-- now uses the Bible to say we shouldn't judge marriage equality. That's progress but it's hard not to be cynical
Politics and the pursuit of power make some Democrats and Republicans leaders do desperate and unethical things. During these difficult times, you get the true measure of someone's character.
So I am not surprised to hear that W. cautions other not to judge gay people. I have always suspected that George W. was comfortable with gay people, like Condi and Ken Mehlman, but when he needed to, he was willing to throw our community under the bus to win re-election, and not to repeat the one-term presidency of his father.
I may forgive him for the damage that he caused for thousands of the LGBT in Ohio and other swing states, but I will not forget his actions or the anti-gay policies of his party. Same goes for Reagan and his refusal to address the AIDS crisis.
Andy Murray wins Wimbledon, with a convincing victory in three sets. He is the first British player to win the men's singles championship since Fred Perry, in 1936
This match was well-worth rising for at 7AM, and seeing Britain, the birthplace of tennis, see one of its own win Wimbledon. Andy, under the guidance of his coach and tennis great Ivan Lendl, gave a strong and resolute performance at the All England club.
As Nadal's and Federer's may have peaked, Andy and Novak are creating a wonderful rivalry to continue this golden age of tennis.
7/6/13
The joy of it all...
...eating dark chocolate, making love, driving at sunset, feeling your body, and celebrating some hard-won personal victory, like this young graduate in Italy. I celebrate being alive.
Another story on why we never give up on anyone...introducing Tim Hardaway
From the Huffington Post:
A former NBA star who once declared "I hate gay people" became the first person to sign a new petition seeking to legalize gay marriage in Florida.
Tim Hardaway signed the first petition Wednesday night for Equal Marriage Florida, a fresh effort to repeal a 2008 state amendment banning same-sex unions. He added his name while leaning over a pool table in a public ceremony at Sully's Tavern in Miami alonside Equal Marriage Florida organizer Vanessa Brito.
"If you’re married you're married -– you should see your significant other in the hospital, make choices for your significant other if you need to make those choices,” Hardaway said at the signing, according to NBC6.
Hardaway, whose killer crossover served teams including Golden State and Miami, has been working for years to undo the damage caused by a hateful tirade on South Florida sports radio in 2007. Asked to respond to the coming out of retired player John Amaechi, he admitted to being homophobic and said he would distance himself from a gay colleague:
"You know, I hate gay people, so I let it be known," Hardaway replied in part. "I don't like gay people and I don't like to be around gay people. I am homophobic. I don't like it. It shouldn't be in the world or in the United States."
The resulting controversy nearly ruined his post-playing career and prompted several apologies. Admitting he "had no idea how much I hurt people" and pledging to "do whatever I can to correct it," Hardaway shortly took classes at a Miami-area LGBT youth suicide prevention organization, raised money for a nationwide suicide hotline for young gay people, and in 2011 in El Paso fought a recall of three local politicians who voted to restore health benefits for gay city employees.
"I opened my eyes and went to counseling," he told the El Paso Times.
A big cultural change: the Archbishop of Canterbury announces that his church must stop bullying gays, in the pews and in schools
From The Telegraph, John Bingham, Religious Affairs Editor
In his most widely anticipated address since taking over the leadership of the Church, the Most Rev Justin Welby insisted that it was now “absurd and impossible” to ignore an “overwhelming” change in social attitudes.Amen!
In a deliberate echo of Harold MacMillan’s 1950 speech which attacked apartheid in South Africa, the Archbishop warned church leaders that they needed to reassess their own attitudes to gay people – even if they do not “like it”.
While insisting he had no immediate plans to change policy on issues such as gay marriage, he announced a major campaign to curb anti-gay bullying in the Church of England’s more than 5,000 schools.
He is understood to have approached Stonewall, which led the campaign in favour of gay marriage, to invite it into church schools to teach up to a million children about homosexuality.
“We may or may not like it but we must accept that there is a revolution in the area of sexuality,” the Archbishop said.
His comments, signalling a dramatic change in tone from the established church, came in his first address as Archbishop to the Church’s General Synod which is meeting in York as it attempts to come up with a new solution to the fiasco over women bishops.
In a wide-ranging address he said that Britain, like other countries, is living through a “time of revolutions” affecting the economic and political sphere but also in social attitudes.
He acknowledged a “radical” decline in religious affiliation, as borne out by the recent census and other polling, as well as an “overwhelming” shift in public attitudes on issues such as sexuality where “predictable attitudes” were disappearing.
Turning to the “many revolutions” underway in Britain, he said: “The cultural and political ground is changing, there is a revolution.
“Anyone who listened to much of the Same Sex Marriage Bill Second Reading Debate in the House of Lords could not fail to be struck by the overwhelming change of cultural hinterland. Predictable attitudes were no longer there.
“The opposition to the Bill - which included me and many other bishops - was utterly overwhelmed, with amongst the largest attendance and participation and majority since 1945.
“There was noticeable hostility to the view of the churches”.
He admitted that it had been “close to the bone” to evidence of young gay people driven to suicide because of uncaring attitudes from churches.
Quote of the day on the looming generational storm for the conservative movement in America. Change or become irrelevant!
"Bad News for the Haters Dept.: You realize that all those obnoxious 16-year-olds you see everywhere, texting their friends who are standing next to them, will be able to vote in the 2016 elections. Do you think you will be able to sell them on your anti-gay/anti-woman/anti-brown/black platform? Do you think they want to end up like you? I bet they don't. Gov. Bobby Jindal said that you all have to stop being the stupid party. I don't think you can do it. How did equality become political? Because you can't handle science, change or the truth. America is on the move, you are not."--Henry Rollins, writing for LA Weekly.
7/3/13
On this July 4th eve, let us celebrate the 13 states in the US where the LGBT are first-class citizens!
CA CT, DE, IA,MA, MD, ME, MN, NH, NY, RI, VT and WA. Plus DC.
Notice any patterns here? Many of these states are the original colonies as well as Union-supporting states. There is not one Red state. Maybe fear (of different race and sexual orientations) is considered "traditional" in these GOP-dominated parts of America? Freedom is truly a progressive value, not necessarily a Republican one.
However, we will never give up on anyone or any state and know that one day every gay American will have their full civil rights.
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